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Valerian Counselling

Why would I benefit from counselling?

“ Counselling is a purposeful, private conversation arising from the intention of one person to reflect on and resolve a problem in living, and the willingness of another person to assist in that endeavour”. (John McLeod)

Professional counselling and psychotherapy available for all areas of Stockport, Tameside, South Manchester and East Cheshire.

Welcome, and thank you for visiting Valerian Counselling.

Our modern world is complex, busy & constantly changing at the best of times and most of the time we just try to get on with our lives. However, the turbulent times we are currently experiencing have stopped most people in their tracks. Events and crises on not just our day-to-day lives but also on an international & global level are having significant impacts on all of us. The resultant persistent uncertainty and unpredictability in our lives can lead to abnormally raised levels of anxiety, insecurity and fear. We have, thankfully, got past the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, but many of us are still dealing with the aftermath in our daily lives, such as the grief arising from bereavement, the financial consequences of unemployment and loss of financial security. The ongoing stress of trying to cope with the social, health and financial aftereffects of the pandemic is worsened by the cost of living crisis, political and social uncertainties in the UK and elsewhere in the world and even the existential threats of climate change and environmental degradation.

In the face of these perceived sources of anxiety, you are in acute need of some support but perhaps feel you can't turn to your family, friends or colleagues because you're embarrassed, think they may not understand or because you think they may also be struggling with their own pressures and stress and you don't want to burden them further.

If so, I believe that counselling would be of real benefit to you. Counselling provides an opportunity to explore feelings, values and purpose in a safe, confidential setting. At its best, counselling can help you to experience more meaning, contentment and fulfilment in life - it's always a good time to talk.

I'm Rory and I can offer you the opportunity to be heard, taken seriously and receive empathic focussed attention without being judged or labelled.This may be a question of zooming out to get your issues in perspective or perhaps zooming in to see the causes of your problem(s) in detail. With your consent, I may invite you to connect with thoughts and feelings that you may have previously overlooked (or avoided), give you encouragement to do things differently, note the results and apply what you have learned about yourself.

I am a Registered, Accredited Member of the BACP (British Association for Counsellors & Psychotherapists) and I work with individuals on an open-ended basis or for an agreed time period, with the aim of enabling you to enhance your life and to live it more fully.

What issues can counselling help with?

According to recent statistics, the most prevalent reasons for people seeking counselling at this time are anxiety disorders, depression & low mood and confidence or self-esteem issues. I have extensive and successful experience in helping people to deal with all these issues and also:-

Bereavement and loss

Anger management

Relationship problems

Addictions - substance (alcohol, drugs) and process (gambling, sex addictions*)

Traumatic experiences

Work and career related issues

*I am also a member of ATSAC (Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity).


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